Should I do it or not? It bothers so many people’s everyday and every moment even cause people sick.
I am lucky that my father gave us clear guideline to make decision. It’s simple and easy. Until now, I still use it and taught it when it’s needed.
Besides no harm for anyone, you can do or not do as what you want. Otherwise, it involves four basic situations for your choice:
- It’s benefit to you and the other party: No worry, just go ahead and do it.
- It does not benefit to anyone including you: Stop to do it and even think about it.
- If it benefits to you but hurts the others: Don’t do it.
- If it benefits the others but hurts you:self Check what you need to pay off?If you can affordable for the loss, then, check the people if he/she is worth to help or not such as relationship (do help family members, close relative or close friend if you will not spoil him/her) , who you owe favor to, who is respected by you, who has contribution to many people, etc. If the answer is positive, then, you can do it. But be caution for not over promise.If you cannot affordable to do it, then, tell the counter part that you cannot help according to your situation.
Hope this also help you to make decision.
© 2013 Frieda Mah, L.Ac., NGH C. Ht.